By Pallavi Verma 
“In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.” – Albert Einstein
The challenge in my journey to create the perfect homestay was finding the right property. I knew it had to be more than just a house; it needed to be a sanctuary that offered the same sense of peace and connection with nature that I had experienced in Almora. I was determined to find a place that would capture the essence of the mountains—fresh air, abundant sunlight, and stunning views.
For months, I scoured different, visiting countless properties. Some were too shadowed by the surrounding hills, others lacked the openness I craved. The process was grueling, filled with long drives, steep hikes, and endless conversations with locals.
Finally, after what felt like an eternity of searching, I stumbled upon a property that took my breath away. It was perched on a gentle slope, with an unobstructed view of the valley below and the towering peaks in the distance. The house was simple but had great potential, and bathed in sunlight from morning until evening. The air was crisp, with a gentle breeze that carried the scent of pine and wildflowers. It was everything I had been looking for, and more.
Unexpected Events
Water Crisis
The decision to run a homestay seemed promising. However, reality presented a significant challenge almost immediately: an acute water scarcity in Gadholi village. What began as a hopeful venture quickly turned into a logistical and financial nightmare.
The unavailability of sufficient water posed a severe setback. Purchasing water on a daily basis proved to be an exorbitant expense, necessitating the installation of water tanks. Yet, the erratic rainfall and the community’s heavy reliance on rainwater for essential needs further compounded the issue. The villagers, facing similar hardships, would trek long distances to fetch water, often carrying heavy loads through challenging terrain. Hum log shroth pe pani ke liye line lagate the jinme dadi, bachhe log ate the. Maza ata tha lekin jb pani sukhne laga to limited pani hi milta tha sabko. Sbke chehre pe hansi si hoti thi in pareshanion ke bich.
बूँद-बूँद में बसी है ज़िंदगी की कहानी, बिन पानी के सूनी है हर एक ज़मीं की ज़िंदगानी। This daily struggle is compounded by the influence of water mafia, who inflate prices according to demand. Even the morning supply of a few liters on alternate days was inadequate, causing significant financial strain and mounting mental stress. I estimated that I needed approximately 2,000 liters daily to maintain the homestay's operations, making it increasingly difficult to provide a welcoming environment for guests. The water crisis has become a critical obstacle, forcing me to rethink my business model and explore sustainable solutions to ensure the success of my homestay in this beautiful yet challenging landscape.
Power Cut
As I embarked on my homestay journey, I quickly realized that limited finances posed significant challenges. One of the most pressing issues was my inability to install a reliable power backup system, which became a major drawback for my guests. Many travelers, especially those who work remotely, depend heavily on electricity to stay connected and comfortable during their stay.
In mountainous regions, strong winds often disrupt the main power supply, leading to frequent outages. These disruptions are primarily due to the risk of electrocution from fallen branches and other hazards, which is a serious concern for forest safety. Unfortunately, this problem became glaringly apparent during my guests’ arrivals. While many visitors were enchanted by the beauty and tranquility of the location, the inconsistent power supply left them frustrated.
Despite their appreciation for the surroundings, guests often expressed their reluctance to stay due to the electricity issues. This feedback was disheartening, as I wanted to provide a welcoming and comfortable experience. The lack of a reliable power source not only affected my guests’ enjoyment but also posed a significant obstacle to the success of my homestay venture, forcing me to rethink my approach to ensuring a better experience for future visitors.
Sound Leakage
One of the biggest challenges in my homestay is the issue of noise transmission throughout the building. The walls and floors seem to amplify even the slightest sounds, allowing noise to pass easily from one room to another. This lack of sound insulation means that guests can be disturbed by everyday activities, such as conversations, footsteps, or doors closing. The noise problem has become a significant drawback, as it disrupts the peaceful atmosphere I intended to create. This issue has not only affected guests’ comfort but has also led to complaints, making it a critical area that needs immediate attention.
Initial Resistance: Struggles of Being an Outsider in the Village
As an outsider, the villagers didn’t welcome me wholeheartedly for the first few months. Their initial hesitation made it difficult to integrate and establish my homestay business. In Gadholi village, dealing with people who drank alcohol and created a nuisance became a significant challenge. Some even resorted to abuse and damaged water pipelines, causing me immense mental stress. Though this was a difficult situation, I chose not to respond directly to their behavior.
It took time for them to see my genuine intentions and commitment to the village. Over time, as I interacted more and became part of their daily life, they began to accept me, slowly opening up and offering their support. This gradual acceptance was a turning point in my journey.
Difficult Terrain: Road Conditions Hindering Guest Arrivals
After heavy rains, the motorable road leading to my property was severely damaged, creating a major problem for guests. With my homestay located 800 meters from the main road, the deteriorated path became treacherous, especially with heavy vehicles worsening the situation. Guests, already tired from their long journey, often became frustrated upon encountering the difficult access. The road’s poor condition not only posed safety concerns but also impacted the overall guest experience, leading to dissatisfaction. This ongoing issue highlighted the challenges of maintaining accessibility in a remote, mountainous area, and the need for immediate repair.
Transformative Experiences: The Bright Side of My Homestay Journey
Despite the challenges that affected my homestay business, there were countless memorable days filled with valuable lessons learned from both travelers and villagers. Each encounter brought new insights and experiences that enriched my journey.
Travelers often shared stories of their own adventures, reminding me that “traveling—it leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller.” This quote by Ibn Battuta perfectly encapsulates the power of travel to create connections and inspire narratives. Their experiences encouraged me to embrace my own journey and foster a welcoming environment for future guests.
The villagers also played a significant role in my learning. Their wisdom and resilience taught me the importance of community. As Maya Angelou said, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” The kindness and support of the villagers made me feel accepted and valued, turning initial hesitations into strong bonds.
Every challenge I faced became a lesson in patience, understanding, and growth. As I navigated these difficulties, I realized that “the journey not the arrival matters,” as T.S. Eliot wisely noted. This perspective transformed my approach, allowing me to focus on the enriching experiences rather than solely the obstacles. In the end, it was these memorable days and the lessons they imparted that truly defined my homestay journey.
A Day in the Life: Embracing Serenity and Challenges in My Homestay
My day began at 5 a.m., a time when the world is still wrapped in a gentle hush. I woke up early to embrace the tranquility that enveloped the mountains. The peaceful morning air was filled with the melodious chants of birds greeting the dawn, creating a symphony that calmed my soul. With a warm cup of water in hand, I savored the serenity around me, feeling grateful for the beauty of the moment.
As the first light of the sun began to illuminate the landscape, I eagerly awaited my furry friends—my pets who always brought joy and companionship. We shared our breakfast together, basking in the soft glow of the morning sun. I couldn’t resist capturing the breathtaking scenery with my camera, clicking countless pictures of the natural beauty surrounding my homestay.
After breakfast, I dedicated time to exercise, taking in the fresh mountain air as I engaged in physical activity that revitalized my spirit. One of my favorite parts of the day was exploring the unknown trails that led to the forest. Each step I took filled me with a profound sense of peace, unlike anything I had ever experienced before. The whispers of the wind through the trees and the rustling of leaves became a soothing backdrop to my thoughts.
Upon returning home, I faced the reality of my responsibilities. I discovered that the water pipes had cracked overnight, a common issue in my village. Repairing them became part of my daily routine, reminding me that life in the homestay was not only about the idyllic moments but also about the challenges I had to face. This blend of serene mornings and daily tasks created a vibrant tapestry of experiences, making my life in the homestay truly fulfilling and happening.
From serene mornings to challenges I meet,
हर दिन है अनमोल, हर लम्हा है खास।
In this tapestry of experiences, I find my way,
Living fully, loving deeply, in every single day.
“Moving Towards a New Journey: The Decision to Close the Homestay”
After a year of navigating the challenges of running my homestay, I made the difficult decision to close the business. The issues I faced—such as water scarcity, noise disturbances, and accessibility problems—were persistent hurdles that overshadowed the joy of the experience. With the peak season lasting only four months, it became clear that sustaining the business was increasingly unfeasible.
As Khalil Gibran wisely said, “The most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart.” While my time in the village was filled with memorable moments, the weight of ongoing difficulties made it hard to feel that beauty.
In the words of the poet Kabir, “कबीरा, जो भला है, सो बुरा न होय;
जिन्हें दुनिया भाए, वो सब दिन सोय।” (Kabir says, what is good shall not be bad; those who please the world, sleep all day.)
I recognized that sometimes, stepping away is necessary for growth and renewal. I decided to search for a new place in the mountains, hoping to find a more harmonious environment where I could reignite my passion for hospitality while embracing fresh opportunities. This decision, though bittersweet, marked the beginning of a new chapter in my journey.